Thursday, June 26, 2008

A Tag

I got this tag from Odette. Her blog is one of my favorites. I don't usually do stuff like this but the questions on this one is nice and sweet. So I decided to go along with it.

Are you deeply in love with your spouse or boyfriend/girlfriend? If you do, let’s try how well you remember the moment of your life with him. But before you put yourself in the hot seat please read the rules of this tag first.

1. This tag should be pass on to your friends.
2. Visit the blog of the person you’ve got this tag.
3. Leave a comment on her/his tag post. Be sure to thank her/him for this tag.
4. Highlight and link all the list of people who accepted this tag by visiting their blog site.
5. There are 10 questions that you need to answer but you will be the one to write the 10th question for the next person you want to pass this tag. Here are the questions. Be honest with your answers.

Let’s Start:

1. How did you meet your husband?

I met Rick online, on a dating site called asianeuro.com. That was back in 2002. He emailed me first. I fell in love with the long emails he sent me. He's a very good writer.

2. Where did you go on your first date?

We never really had a first date. Because the first time we met and went somewhere, my family was always with us. First dinner was at my house. I wanted my parents to know him first before anything else. Second night, we went to Jack's Ridge. He requested our song - I Will from the people serenading the guest at the restaurant. I felt embarrassed then but now I think that was so sweet...

3. When was your first intimate kiss?

I decided to do this, so i guess i have to answer this one! So here goes... all I can say is... it did NOT happen on the first date! :-)

4. How many girlfriends did he have in the past? Do you honestly know?

He didn't really say how many girlfriends he had. I guess too many that he couldn't remember them. He was married before though, but the marriage didn't last long. I saw a couple love letter when I was cleaning the garage.. He told me that was from long time ago. I guess all that matters now is that HE'S ALL MINE!

5. What is his ethnicity?

He’s American.

6. What is his favorite food?

Anything that doesn't contain any vegetation.

7. What is he like if he is mad?

He walks fast with heavy footsteps!

8. What are the things he did you thought is the most romantic thing he’d ever done?

Sometimes I come home from work and he would have a box of chocolate for me. Sometimes a flower on the dining table he picked from the garden. Little gestures that suggests he was thinking of me while I was gone. So sweet!

9. Describe how he proposed to you.

He proposed to me twice! The first time was very informal. He wants to do it right, so he asked my dad's permission and the next day proposed again, down on one knee with a diamond ring!

10. When did you know he was the ONE?

When he said my magic words! I was so happy! I knew then he was God's answer to my prayer. I was getting kinda old so I was getting impatient. That's how I ended up having an account on a dating site.

I'm passing this tag to all the married ladies out there who reads my blog...

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Marital Bliss


It's our fourth year wedding anniversary today! It seems like it was only yesterday when we had our wedding. Time sure flies when you are having a good time! A few of my co-workers knew about our anniversary. When I told them it's our fourth year, they would exclaim - oh, you're just babies! Most of them have been married for 20 years or so... So yah, we are babies! Hopefully someday we will celebrate our twentieth too. We will be old by then. But, if we're are still able... I want to have another wedding! I love being a bride...

Our four years together has been an adventure. We have traveled a lot. He showed and taught me a lot of things about the country and about nature. Because of him I became interested in sports and politics. Because of him I continue to grow. Our marriage is not perfect. We have our own faults. We argue. We have our differences. But we have a lot of things in common and the greatest one is our love for each other. So no matter what happens, at the end of the day, we know, we still have each other to love and to hold. Everyday, we continue to learn something, we continue to grow in love. Tomorrow is yet another day for an exciting adventure.

To my Richard - You are the best thing that ever happened to me. You are my best friend. Life is wonderful because of you. It may be tough sometimes, but as long as we have each other, nothing else matters. Looking forward to fifty more years of marital bliss with you! I love you!

Happy Anniversary, Sweetheart...

Thursday, June 19, 2008

My Brethren

Spread love everywhere you go: first of all in your own house.
Give love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor...
Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.
Be the living expression of God's kindness;
Kindness in your smile,
Kindness in your warm greeting.

- Mother Teresa



When I work at the hospital, I mostly work in the employee's cafeteria. Although we call it 'employee's cafe', it is open to the public. That's where family and friends of people at the nursing home or patients at the hospital, go to get something to eat. Although the place is really small, we do have quite a few selection and they are good and cheap. A lot of people commend the cook for making really good food. I like working at the cafe because I get to interact with different people everyday. I have made a few friends along the way. It helps build my confidence too.

There's this old lady who comes through cafe once in a while. She is not an employee and I don't think she's visiting anybody either. The first time I saw her, she told me that she left her wallet at our cafe the day before. She said there was money in it and some house keys. I didn't work the day before so I don't know if anybody had found it. So I just told her that whenever we find something, we always leave it at the Registration Office. I told her she can go check there to see if her wallet was indeed there. But instead of leaving, she stayed and fumbled through her purse and continued to look for her wallet. She then decided to buy food that's worth $1, because that's all she has. I felt sorry for her then, she was old and I thought to myself she is just getting forgetful, like everybody else her age. The next time I saw this lady, she was at my morning job asking for donation for some car crash she was in. Nobody gave her any money at the office, because obviously, she was not hurt! It was a scam! From then on, I was never pleasant with her anymore. Irritates me whenever she comes through cafe because she asks "how much" a million times, she pinches, smells and touches everything! It's annoying!

She was back last Monday. I rolled my eyes when I saw her. I answered her every question with a scowl on my face. She was still eating when I went to the dining area to tidy up the place a bit. She tried to make small talks with me, but I was cold. She continued eating silently while I worked. She must have realized I wasn't interested. All of a sudden, it dawned on me, what if I am being tested by God! I surely did fail big time! What if she's Jesus? I was so rude! I felt ashamed and scared. If it was the end of the world, I surely would have no chance of making the situation right. I quickly tried to right the wrong, I asked her how her food was and wished her a good day. I felt better after that.

Life is already hard as it is. I bet that lady had to beg for money everyday in order to buy food. Thank God for the awakening. Being good is not easy. But it sure does feel good when you are able to brighten up someone's day. Smile! It does wonders for the soul.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Boyax!


It's my Papa's birthday today and it's father's day too! So I get to give him only one present this time. They had a party for him and I heard everybody had fun. It's during times like this that I miss my family so much more... I don't get to celebrate with them. My only contribution would be some money and a phone call. It's sad sometimes but I chose a different path in life. No regrets though because I love my life here.

Growing up I was always told I am like my father. In a way I agree with them. I am cheap and smart about money. I know how to fix things around the house. I remember how I helped him build a couple screen doors for the house. That was fun. He was so patient with me and I was proud of him when I saw the finished product. I am the oldest kid so I was mostly helping him when he's trying to fix something. A skill that I am proud of! I am a better handyman than Rick. Like Papa, I don't like to dilly dally when dealing with business transactions. My love for movies is all because of him. He introduced me to Star Wars and Indiana Jones. He loves watching foreign films. I think that's why I speak good English. The one thing I didn't get from him is his cooking skills. He makes scrumptious meals. Lunch on Sundays was his turn to cook. And boy... you don't wanna be anywhere else but home. That's the time when everyone's at the table and we would sit there, eat, talk and tease. Nobody leaves the table until somebody cries. It's fun having a big family.

To my Papa... thank you for being a good father. You raised me well. I love you!

Happy Birthday!

Friday, June 06, 2008

Clutter and Achievements

Our kitchen remodel is finally on the way. We spent the entire week boxing our kitchen stuff, taking down the cabinets and painting. We are pooped! Our sanctuary turned into a place of turmoil. We are lost in our own space. How weird is that? The living room and the basement looks like storage. There's no place to sit or eat. Since Monday our meals consist of frozen pizza and the restaurant. This remodel is getting pricier by the minute. Yes, I am complaining! But I know it has to be done. I just need to focus on the bigger picture... The contractor said they will start working later today and will be done by Monday. I hope he's right! Because another week of clutter will drive me bonkers!

Anyway, last Thursday, the company where I work as an 'accountant' had their annual board meeting. I didn't get to go because I am not a member of the board of directors nor an investor. But Friday morning my 'bosses' came up to me and told me that the Auditor/CPA had really nice things to say about me in front of the board! I don't know his exact words so I am not gonna quote him. All I know is that he's pleased with my work. I am so happy! It felt like a great accomplishment in some sort of way. Finally my great skills has been recognized and rewarded by kind words. I didn't get to hear it first hand, but knowing that somebody appreciates my work is good enough for me. My mama and papa would be so proud of me. I am proud of me! Thank you so much ma and pa for raising me to be one fine worker. Working for you for so many years did pay off. I know I was stubborn at times when you want things done your way. You want things done efficiently, neat and organized. Well, I have done things your way and now I am reaping the 'rewards'. Again, thank you, without your guidance and support, I would be nothing.

Well, I better go do some accomplishing now! It wont be much given the present state of our living room and kitchen. But I know a long hot bath will do wonders for the soul!